Nws tsis muaj qhov exaggeration hais tias 90% ntawm lub hnab ntim khoom noj thiab cov khoom siv ntxiv uas koj tuaj yeem pom hauv khw tau ntim los ntawm kev siv lub tshuab ntim ntim tsis siv neeg. Tsis siv neeg lub tshuab ntim tau nkag mus rau txhua qhov chaw, txawm tias cov rooj tog kev lag luam thiab khoom siv hluav taws xob. Cov tshuab ntim tshuab tau siv hauv cov tub luam ceev, cov khoom siv hluav taws xob, cov cuab yeej khoom siv, cov khoom siv huv, khoom ua si, khoom siv kis las, khoom siv hauv tsev, tshuaj, khoom siv hluav taws xob, kho vajtse, zaub mov kev lag luam, thiab lwm yam.
Nyob rau lub sijhawm thaum tib neeg' s txoj kev ua neej nyob thiab lub neej zoo tau hloov kho, qhov kev thov rau cov khoom siv tau zoo tau txuas ntxiv. Yog li no, lub sijhawm no, tsis siv neeg ntim tshuab tau dhau los ua qhov tseem ceeb hauv kev ua haujlwm ntau. Cov lus nyob mus ib txhis ntawm tib neeg yog cov lus siv nyob rau hauv tib neeg lub siab. Nws tseem yog vim tias qhov kev nce qib ntawm lub sijhawm, lub neej ntawm lub neej tau nrawm dua, thiab qhov xwm txheej tshwm sim los ntawm cov khoom siv tau los ua ntau dua thiab tseem ceeb hauv lub neej, txawm hais tias nws yog khoom noj lossis kho vajtse. Qhov kev thov rau lub tshuab ntim tsis siv neeg rau hauv cov rooj tog, khoom siv hluav taws xob, khoom ua si thiab lwm yam kev lag luam tau nce ntxiv, thiab lub tshuab ntim ntim tsis siv neeg ua haujlwm tseem ceeb rau lub neej.
Lub tshuab tsis siv neeg ntim zoo li tau npaj rau kev tsim cov kev lag luam ntau yam, thiab qhov no kuj yog tus qauv ntawm kev txhim kho kev ua neej, tab sis kuj muaj kev cia siab zoo rau lub neej. Yog tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb, tom qab kev lag luam yuav tsum ceev cov kev ceev ntawm zej tsoom thiab ua lawv cov khoom. Zoo, cia nws ua tau raws li qhov nce xav tau ntawm cov neeg siv khoom. Los ntawm cov kev tshawb fawb ntawm kev tshawb fawb thiab thev naus laus zis, peb siv zog txhim kho lub tswv yim tshiab thiab siv lawv lub tshuab mus rau. Muaj ntau cov haujlwm ntxiv los xyuas kom meej tias kev ntim khoom tuaj yeem nyab xeeb thiab nrawm dua, kom peb tsis txhob cia peb nqis rau cov khoom lag luam tseem ceeb no.
Piv txwv li, kev lag luam kev lag luam ua khoom noj khoom haus tsis yog qhov tsis tseem ceeb hauv tib neeg' s lub neej, tab sis kuj tseem nyob hauv kev lag luam nrawm thiab kub hauv kev ua lag luam. Yog li no, qhov no tseem qhia tau tias tseem ceeb npaum li cas lub cav tsis siv neeg ntim khoom thiab cov cuab yeej ua si hauv kev ua thiab tsim cov khoom lag luam no. Yog li no, tsis hais lub sijhawm twg thiab nyob qhov twg, tsuav yog muaj chaw rau tib neeg nyob, yuav tsis muaj zaub mov noj, thiab yog qhov tseeb, cov khoom siv tseem ceeb xws li tsis siv neeg ntim tshuab.
Cov ntsia hlau ntim tshuab yog kho kom haum rau cov ntsia hlau kho vajtse. Kev ntim khoom tuaj yeem tsim tau raws li tus neeg yuav khoom' s yuav tsum tau ua. Lub kauj ruam tshiab tswj hwm thiab xim cim xim nrhiav tau tuaj yeem siv kom tau cov cim cim cim kev lag luam. Siv cov kev lag luam: rooj tog, teeb pom kev zoo, cov khoom siv hluav taws xob, cov cuab yeej khoom siv, cov khoom siv huv, cov khoom ua si, cov khoom siv hluav taws xob, khoom siv hluav taws xob, chaw sau ntawv, kev lag luam yeeb, tsheb, yas, thiab lwm yam, uas yuav tsum siv kho vajtse lossis hnab ntim khoom.
